Cake Topper

Not Just Any Gay Wedding…

When is a gay wedding more than just a gay wedding? When your husband to be has had a 30 year dream of getting married in Venice, Italy since the age of 11.  Love means you’ll do just about anything to make it happen. After all,  isn’t that what love is about, making your fiancés  dreams come true. Our worldly guest list included friends from Chicago, Texas, Washington, California, Fiji and Australia. Yes our peeps flew half way around the world for us. #Blessed 

After our glorious nuptials under the baroque fresco, we wanted to give our guests a fun photo op while the Ridotto Ballroom was being redressed for dinner.  We’d designed our own step and repeat and had it installed in the adjoining Crozzola room. We added a prop table that included an assortment of Venetian masks and Chinese fans. ‘Dynasty poses’ are something we adore doing in our photo ops. Strike a pose, throw in a little attitude, and viola! 

Step and Repeat
David Stanko and Ms. Ibay, Hotel Monaco & Grand Canal, Venice, Italy #RomiAndReciosVenetianWedding
First Lady of Fiji
First Lady of Fiji Natalie Marletta and Husband Ben Tedrick, Hotel Monaco & Grand Canal, Venice, Italy #RomiAndReciosVenetianWedding
Step and Repeat
Mr. & Mrs. Forgue, Ridotto Ballroom, Venice, Italy #RomiAndReciosVenetianWedding
Step and Repeat
Mr. & Mrs. Rod Lee, Hotel Monaco & Grand Canal, Venice, Italy #RomiAndReciosVenetianWedding
The Taylors
Mr. & Mrs. Taylor, Ridotto Ballroom, Venice, Italy #RomiAndReciosVenetianWedding
Step and Repeat
Ms. Davis, Ms. Bigelow, Mrs. Bigelow, Mrs. Puckett, Hotel Monaco & Grand Canal, Venice, Italy #RomiAndReciosVenetianWedding
Step and Repeat
Ms. Beyne, Mrs. Beyne, Ms. Chan, Romi Cortier, Recio Young, Ms. Reyes, Ms. Harville, Ms. Davis, Hotel Monaco & Grand Canal, Venice, Italy #RomiAndReciosVenetianWedding

Once the Ridotto was reset, our guests flooded back in, found their tables, and prepared for the continuation of the festivities. Recio and I burst into spontaneous dance as we re- entered the ballroom and made our way to our table.  Recio decided to throw in a little twerking,  and our guests went wild.

As the evening progressed We had many of the traditional moments.  Our first dance, speeches from our best men,  our personal speeches, a champagne toast, and the cutting of the cake.

First Date
Romi Cortier, Recio Young, Ridotto Ballroom, Venice, Italy #RomiAndReciosVenetianWedding
Best Man
Isaiah Young, Romi Cortier, Recio Young, Ridotto Ballroom, Venice, Italy #RomiAndReciosVenetianWedding
The Best Man
Best man David Stanko, Ridotto Ballroom, Venice, Italy, #RomiAndReciosVenetianWedding

The cutting of the cake was a moment that we couldn’t wait to share with our guests, because we had a little surprise in store for them. We, yes Recio and I, were the cake topper. My best man David Stanko had taken us to Doob 3D as a wedding gift. In their photo studio we held a pose in a round room, filled with 75 cameras. A single flash gave them a digital 3D file. Six weeks later we received our little statue in the mail. It was a total show stopper!! After the big reveal our guests were jockeying to take photos of it, especially  with the two of us standing behind it. Even the Hotel staff lost their minds when they pulled it out of the box… I’d forgotten to mention that it was literally ‘us’ as the cake topper. Thank you David for one of the best moments of the evening, and for helping us make this a spectacular gay wedding.

The Cake
Romi Cortier, Recio Young, Ridotto Ballroom, Venice, Italy #RomiAndReciosVenetianWedding
Cake Topper
Recio Young, Romi Cortier, Ridotto Ballroom, Venice, Italy #RomiAndReciosVenetianWedding
Cake Topper
Cake Topper, Ridotto Ballroom, Venice, Italy #RomiAndReciosVenetianWedding

Hotel Monaco & Grand Canal

Here’s the moment we danced into the ballroom. A huge thank you to our camera man Andrea Rizzo for creating this fantastic video.

 

4 thoughts on “Not Just Any Gay Wedding…”

  1. What an amazing wedding and trip to Italy. I am grateful to have been a part of this Blessed experience. Although there were a few major hurdles for me literally days before the wedding, nothing could have stopped me from witnessing this Beautiful Union. Love you Recio and Romi!!!! #RomiAndReciosVenitianWedding #lovewins

    -Electra

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